Tag: sammy
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Thoughts on “spoiling” my dogs…

@AlignedK9 / Noelle, the trainer who helped me with an extended board and train with Aisling, recently shared something on her story about not “spoiling” our dogs, humanizing our dogs, and the harmful impact those things can have on our furry friends. It got me thinking about what “spoiling” can mean in different contexts. I…
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The Final Days – how I prepare for the death of my hospice care animals

As a canine hospice caregiver, and someone who has a life-limiting illness, death is something I have had to become intimately acquainted with. It is a part of me, and a part of the work I do. The intention of canine hospice care is not necessarily to prolong the life of those I care for,…
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Solidarity across species lines – when disabled animals and handlers work together

“…I think a lot of folks make the assumption that disabled and chronically ill people, who are often in the position of requiring care, would not make good caregivers themselves. This isn’t necessarily true. Like any other generalization, this blankets over all variants and complexities that make up the reality of our collective experiences.”
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Grief, aftercare, and the censorship of death

I find myself censoring myself a lot when talking about grief and loss regarding my animals. I delete “Sorrel died” in texts to replace it with things like “Sorrel passed away” and “Sorrel was laid to rest”. Why do we, culturally, want to distance ourselves from death so badly?